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Your spouse may be wonderful, but it's not wise to find all of your happiness from them. Erin Smalley shares why couples need to look for satisfaction in God, not just marriage. Then, Jim Daly talks to Rebecca St. James and her husband Cubbie. She discusses how surrendered her dream of having a family to God.

 

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Your spouse may be wonderful, but it's not wise to find all of your happiness from them. Erin Smalley shares why couples need to look for satisfaction in God, not just marriage. Then, Jim Daly talks to Rebecca St. James and her husband Cubbie. She discusses how surrendered her dream of having a family to God.
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If you’re married — or soon to be — you’ve got questions. What makes this relationship work? How do I fix it when it breaks? Where do I go when I need help? Host John Fuller and marriage experts Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley help answer those questions with practical, down-to-earth insights based on God’s design for marriage. Find answers and inspiration in every short episode of this Christian marriage podcast.

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Marriage Won’t Solve Discontentment

Going Through Loss

Jim & Jean's Tragedy

Finding Strength Together

Resources to Help

Every couple goes through loss sometimes. John and Greg open up about times they went through loss in their marriages, and how God showed up during those times. Also, Jim and Jean Daly share how they worked through a season of mourning.

 

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Every couple goes through loss sometimes. John and Greg open up about times they went through loss in their marriages, and how God showed up during those times. Also, Jim and Jean Daly share how they worked through a season of mourning.
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When You Walk Through a Mourning Season

Introduction

Feeling Offended

Be Honest with Each Other

Have you or your spouse ever had an unexpected outburst? It might be that there are unrealistic expectations underneath the surface. Greg and Erin talk to Jim and Jean Daly about how they've worked through expectations and misunderstandings. Plus, John asks the Smalley's how you can practice genuine honesty for the sake of your marriage.

 

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Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage 

 

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Have you or your spouse ever had an unexpected outburst? It might be that there are unrealistic expectations underneath the surface. Greg and Erin talk to Jim and Jean Daly about how they've worked through expectations and misunderstandings. Plus, John asks the Smalley's how you can practice genuine honesty for the sake of your marriage.
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Find us online at <a href="http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast" data-callout-id="edit_links_in_description">focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast</a> or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.
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<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2026-01-20?refcd=2416803">Receive the book The Healthy Marriage Devotional for your donation of any amount!</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/lesgo3">Focus on Marriage Assessment</a>
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<a href="https://store.focusonthefamily.com/five-ways-to-grow-closer-as-a-couple-i-ii-digital/?refcd=2416803">Five Ways to Grow Closer as a Couple</a>&nbsp;
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/1fnn9b">Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage</a>&nbsp;
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/tperc3">Contact our Counseling Team</a>
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Dealing with Unmet Expectations and Offenses

Emphasizing the Wrong Things

Hedge Around Family

Overcoming Regrets

So many people regret not spending enough time with their family. How do you avoid making that very mistake? Erin Smalley addresses how she's seen that very scenario in her counseling office. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Jerry Jenkins about things he learned from interviewing five high-profile men, and how that inspired him to spend time with his wife and kids.

 

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Hope Restored

 

How to Guard Your Marriage From Temptation 

 

5 Traditional Marriage Vows: What They Mean and Why They're Still Important 

 

The Hedges Challenge

 

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So many people regret not spending enough time with their family. How do you avoid making that very mistake? Erin Smalley addresses how she's seen that very scenario in her counseling office. Plus, Jim Daly talks to Jerry Jenkins about things he learned from interviewing five high-profile men, and how that inspired him to spend time with his wife and kids.
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Find us online at <a href="http://focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast" data-callout-id="edit_links_in_description">focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast</a> or call 1-800-A-FAMILY.
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<a href="https://donate.focusonthefamily.com/don-fofm-podcast-2026-01-15?refcd=2414802">Receive the book Hedges for your donation of any amount!</a>
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/bv627o">Hope Restored</a>
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<a href="https://store.focusonthefamily.com/how-to-guard-your-marriage-from-temptation-i-ii-digital/?refcd=2414802">How to Guard Your Marriage From Temptation</a>&nbsp;
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/nfc2lh">5 Traditional Marriage Vows: What They Mean and Why They're Still Important</a>&nbsp;
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<a href="https://sf.fotf.com/10weho">The Hedges Challenge</a>
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